Why Women Are Attracted to Alpha Men

  The other day a guy mentioned that he didn’t understand why some women fall for alpha men. He described alpha men as self-centered. The whole self-centered label often gets associated with alphas….they think they know everything, they believe they are superior...

How Society Has Royally Screwed Us Over

Fine. We’re all just fine. Have we been programmed to be this way? Who’s responsible? Society? The system? Is it a question of human nature? Are all three responsible? One of my clients recently told me, “You appear as a goddess, with all your big dreams, your...

Be Your Own Superhero, Always

Some people are lucky. Really lucky. They come from wealthy families which afford them the education and resources to excel at their careers. Or to travel the world. Some have the love and emotional support from their families and friends, in good times and in bad....

Why You Should Never Be With Someone Based on Potential

Have you ever bought a house that needed a lot of work? And you didn’t care because you saw the POTENTIAL of the house? And you couldn’t wait to get your hands dirty so you could create the home of your dreams? This kind of commitment based on potential is called a...

Why We Need More Simplicity in Our Lives

    We often want complexity. It’s intriguing. It’s mysterious. It’s sexy. Complexity keeps us guessing. It brings us drama. It’s often a game. And don’t we all like to play games? Complexity gets old though. You reach a point when...

The Pursuit of Belonging

  Are you human? Then there’s a great chance that you, like me, need to have a sense of belonging. It’s a human need to be accepted….somewhere. It’s what gives meaning to our lives. It’s the way we navigate emotional pain. And...

The Key To Being True to Yourself

    When do we start putting ourselves and our dreams first? When do we stop? Are we supposed to ever stop? There isn’t a start date nor an expiration date. There isn’t a formula, an equation or any kind of line graph for that either. We just simply have to...

You Don’t Need Closure With The Egocentric, Just Move On

  So you want closure, do you? Did your thing feel really good and then abruptly end? Now some time has passed, they’re back in contact with you and you want to see them to get that closure? Or maybe to see if anything has changed….to see if things could be...

Why Your Strength Could Be Killing Your Femininity

  Has your reaction to getting hurt ever been something resembling this: your hands are on your hips, you stand tall and say, “F**k you, I don’t need you or any man” ? I totally get it. After my summer heartbreak I pretty much told every guy who approached me to...

The Biggest Mistake You Can Make In Any Relationship

  You see them from across the room. You’re instantly attracted. Your curiosity flies off the charts. They come up and introduce themselves. You’re even more intrigued. You go on a date. You kiss. You can’t stop thinking about them when you’re apart. You fall in...